The Editor:
Re: Coquitlam RCMP postpones drag queen story time due to anti-SOGI rally (Oct. 13, 2023)
I am greatly disappointed to learn the Coquitlam Public Library has postponed its drag queen story time event on Oct. 21.
I understand the challenges and concerns the library must be facing in light of upcoming anti-SOGI protests, and though I may disagree with the postponement, I respect the library's decision to keep Coquitlam's LGBTQ2IA+ community safe. Last Wednesday, Oct. 11, was National Coming Out Day. I have been reflecting on my experience growing up in Coquitlam as a queer youth and how the lack of positive exposure to queer culture in those formative years impacted my life.
I am saddened by the number of adult years I lost living in the closet because the community I grew up in didn't support me living authentically, and because I was afraid of the kind of discrimination, marginalization and violence we now see directly is very real in Coquitlam. Though today I live happily as a proud, out gay man in Vancouver's West End, I regret and mourn the experiences I lost in my adolescence and early adulthood from being closeted.
And, I think about how different my existence could have been if I hadn't had to make so many life decisions based in fear, denial or shame. However, I am buoyed with hope for future generations when I learn that the Tri-Cities and other municipalities now offer inclusive cultural programming that reflects the true diversity of its residents.
A few years ago, I was able to attend a drag queen story time with my sister and young niece at the Port Moody library. You have no idea how meaningful and affirmative it was for me to be able to share my culture with my niece in an age-appropriate way, in the community where she is growing up and where I once felt unwelcomed.
It brought me to tears experiencing such progress within my lifetime — within a generation. According to the Centre for Suicide Prevention, lesbian, gay and bisexual youth in Canada are five times more likely to consider suicide and seven times more likely to attempt suicide than their straight peers.
We must stand up against these protests now. I hope that the City of Coquitlam and its institutions will persevere on behalf of LGBTQ2IA+ individuals and continue offering this kind of programming.
At this frightening time in history, queer and trans adults and youths need support from our allies now more than ever.
And, the investment in justice, equity, diversity and inclusion will surely return to benefit Coquitlam in the form of a joyful, abundant, expressive and welcoming community for years to come.
- Craig Long, Vancouver
